I have issues with Halloween. Not even because of the association with death and horror, although we do leave those aspects out of our activity choices. It's all the candy. Yes, I realize it's just one day. But that candy hangs around much longer than just one day. And it's not like our children aren't inundated with candy and sweets on a regular basis--birthdays, Valentine's Day, Christmas, prizes, etc, etc. Why do we feel that a celebration has to be tied to large consumption of unhealthy, processed food?I know some people have their kids donate a portion of their candy to their dentist who donates it to a charity or trade it in for a book or other toy. And in my house the candy has simply "disappeared" as soon as Halloween becomes a distant memory. With these options the candy is being thrown away (wasteful) or given away to "less fortunate children," because we don't want our own children to eat it. Really???
However, for the whole I believe that we have created a country that is so concerned with having it all and having it now, that we either do not care or do not know where our food, clothing, and general goods come from or what it has taken to get there. I believe we have allowed the wool to be pulled over our eyes because we have decided that it is more important to have excess than to have value. Rather than choosing moderation and self control, we have created a world in which bananas, coffee, sugar, chocolate and the people who produce them can be easily exploited for profit. I believe this isn't the fault of large corporations, but more so we as individuals who have voted with our dollars and with our lifestyles.
Please don't misunderstand, I know this is a very complicated issue in which it is difficult to determine which side started it, and what then to do to change it. Sometimes we are stuck with two less than optimal choices. In no way am I trying to say that I am "holier-than-thou" because of my choices. What I am saying, is that when an issue pricks my conscious, I believe that I have a responsibility to then make changes in the way I live to line up with my values. These values have already lead us to make changes such as buying our meat and dairy from local farmers as much as possible, to minimize the amount of processed food that we allow into our diets, and make most of our own food.
Back to Halloween...
This year we decided to have a little Halloween party for the kids, because we still want to do something fun. The kids, except for one, picked out costumes to make. We'll make Monster Face Sandwiches with veggies, hummus, meat and cheese, salad, Spider Snacks out of crackers, peanut butter, pretzels, and organic chocolate chips. For desert we'll have homemade sugar cookies shaped like pumpkins. We're also brainstorming some game ideas with a pumpkin/Halloween theme and going to download fun music. For the trick-or-treaters we have sticky eyeballs and the like to give away. (Which may not be the best option either, but we're taking it one step at a time as we learn.)
My challenge to you is not to make the same exact choices I do, but rather to think about what bothers your conscious or doesn't sit well with you. Then, decide what you can do differently to better reflect your values.
